In Florida, if your spouse asks you for a divorce, you should sit down and ask here, “Is there any way that we can save this marriage?” If you don’t have to go through a divorce, then you save yourself all the time, money and anguish that that process involves. However, if she says, “I want a divorce” and you know she’s serious, the first step you should do is find a experienced or board certified marital family lawyer and sit down and find out what are my rights and what are my obligations, in fact, if a divorce occurs, because my wife has asked for one.