Can I make my husband repay the money he cleaned out of my bank account?

The answer to that question is it depends. If during the course of the divorce, money has been removed from a marital bank account and that money has been used to pay the usual marital expenses, the mortgage on the house, the pool boy, car payments, groceries, those types of things, then the court is not going to require payment. If, however, those monies have been used for personal purposes unrelated to the marriage, then you have a chance of having those portions of the monies compensated back to you.